“Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source.”
In a relationship a couple cultivates closeness with the expectation that more intimacy will bring better sex. Why then do we often experience profound challenges as we attempt to open up to our partners?
In my therapeutic work and my coaching sessions you will find the room to communicate your frustrations, investigate a stuck dynamic, explore your longings and find a voice to communicate your desires.
Examination of a couples relationship dynamics allows both partners to develop a deeper understanding for each other and their own challenges. This process opens the door to transformation and new opportunities for the relationship.
Possible concerns:
Tension and fights are ruining our relationship
Low libido and lack of desire
Is this all? New perspectives on love-making and gourmet/slow sex
Afraid to reveal your kinky side, overwhelmed by shame and guilt
Fear of intimacy, unable to commit to a relationship
Recognize your true desire and also learn to set boundaries
Understanding and managing jealousy
Past sexual trauma
Affairs and infidelity, guilt and forgiveness
Separation and mindful divorce coaching
Navigating polyamorie, free love or an open relationship
Lives transformations: Birth of a child, menopause, illness, grief, coming-out or transgender explorations
Porn addiction
Sexual dysfunctions and arousal concerns*
* Please make sure to see a doctor first if your problem is physical in nature. A gynecologist or urologist can detect difficulties due to illness, aging, or metabolic and hormonal imbalances. Prescription drugs, recreational drugs, alcohol, and smoking can all affect sexual functioning. However, with most sexual dysfunction and libido concerns the underlying psychological and emotional issues can be addressed in our work together.